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FAMILY SECRETS: Casey Anthony Found Not Guilty
Wednesday, July 6th, 2011UPDATE 7/5- Casey Anthony was found not guilty on the charges of murder, manslaughter and child abuse. She was found guilty on misdemeanor charges of lying to law enforcement.
Casey Anthony is fighting first degree murder charges and the death penalty in the death of her 2-year-old daughter, Caylee Anthony. Anthony did not report her child missing for 30+ days and when confronted by her mother, Cindy, insisted the baby had been kidnapped by a make-believe nanny. The prosecution asserts that the toddler was suffocated with three pieces of duct tape and remained in the trunk of her mother’s car until she was dumped in the woods near their home. Cindy reported her granddaughter missing after she got a whiff of “death” coming from the trunk of her daughter’s car.
Anthony’s defense is that her little girl, Caylee, drowned in the family pool. Her attorney’s attributed Casey’s bizarre behavior to her alleged sexual abuse by her father and has made innuendos that there may have been an inappropriate relationship with her brother, Lee (the baby’s name is a combination of Casey and Lee’s names). The brother and father were given a paternity test that proved neither one is the father of Caylee.
MOMism: “Lies beget lies.” We tell our kids to tell the truth because it’s the right thing to do, but also, because it’s hard to keep track of lies. MAMAs need to nip lies in the bud and reward our kids for truth telling, not enabling them to perfect the cover up. If kids get punished when they tell the truth, then they learn to hide behind lies because at least there’s a chance that they might get away with it. (Of course, there should be consequences for the bad behavior that kids might be temped to lie about, but let’s not forget the positive reinforcement when they tell the truth about the stupid thing they just did.)
When lies start, they tend to build in scope and scale. Finally, it’s hard for kids (and adults) to know where the truth begins and ends creating a big, gigantic pile of lies that just get buried with more lies to cover the lies. Denial and complete distortion of reality follow, but eventually, the lies fester and manifest in bizarro ways.
What makes this trial noteworthy to MAMAs, besides the fact that a MAMA is on trial, but really an entire dysfunctional family is on trial. And, we are watching the consequences of years of lies unfold before our eyes. (It reminds us that no one really knows what goes on behind closed doors – even well manicured people and lawns have deep dark secrets.) Casey learned to be a good liar, so good in fact that it’s hard to figure out the truth. It’s disturbing how tangled up this family’s stories are – so many questions and bizarre twists and turns in the trial to find the truth.
Why did Casey lie about where her baby was? Why lie for so long? To be a party girl? Really? Why didn’t she give the baby to her parents to watch? Why didn’t she get a sitter? Fear? Bizzaro.
If she was molested as a child, why was she still living with her parents? If her baby died accidentally, why wasn’t she distraught? Why was she “pretending” everything was fine? Why the duct tape?
Why is she such a good liar? Who did she learn that from?
Casey’s brother, Lee, said that her pregnancy with Caylee was sort of “ignored” by the family. Why? Who fathered this child? Paternity tests have determined that none of Casey’s family members fathered her baby, but no father has been named. Meanwhile, grandma, seemingly the most devastated by little Caylee’s death, is the one who cleaned out the trunk of her daughter’s car to rid it of the supposed decomposition smell. There are a mountain of lies to dig through that could confuse the jury, so Casey doesn’t get the death penalty. Hopefully, at the end of this trial, justice will be served and the truth will set little Caylee free. But, will it set Casey free?
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“Declare your independence”
Tuesday, July 5th, 2011| Happy 4th of July Weekend MAMAs!
There’s always something to do around the house, but we hope you declare your independence from chores and have some fun over the long weekend! In between the hot dogs and fireworks, let’s teach our KID-Os that the Statue of Liberty was a birthday present from France to commemorate the centennial signing of the United States Declaration of Independence – adopted by Congress on July 4, 1776 – which is inscribed on Lady Liberty’s tablet. Let’s not forget to remind our KID-Os that the statue “la Liberté éclairant le monde” (translation: Liberty Enlightening the World) was a gesture of friendship and inspiration to the world. We hope you celebrate our country’s birthday with friends and family who inspire you every day! Have a great weekend MAMAs. Change Begins at Home! -Michelle & Deb |
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PROJECT MAKEOVER – Military Homes Get Re-Make
Tuesday, June 28th, 2011Our friends at Lifetime and the DESIGNING SPACES DREAM TEAM are honoring the men and women who serve our country with a new initiative – PROJECT MAKEOVER – to rebuild the homes and lives of our troops. They are going to be visiting the homes of soldiers coming back for the first time and families who are doing the best they can while their loved ones are still serving abroad. The Designing Spaces Team also plans to visit the homes of families who have lost a loved one in battle and spouses who have become caregivers to their loved ones injured in war. The team will be on hand to help them remodel, retrofit and rebuild their homes and their hope for a stable future. Sound like a great idea? Well, wanna know the best part? It can be YOU!
If you want to participate, or know a military family that might be interested, to enter! Please spread the word to all the Military MAMAs you know…the people that sacrifice so much for our safety and security deserve to enjoy all the comforts of home!
MOMism: “There is no place like home.” Home – just saying it out loud conjures up emotions, but mostly it brings a sense of peace. It’s our safe place. Our kids and loved ones have been far far away for too long. We want their home coming to be celebrated, but more importantly, we want them to feel like they are home – safe and secure surrounded by love. Let’s give our troops a Home Sweet Home-coming, whether we rebuild their house or just make a banner for the front door. It’s the big things and the little things that define the comforts of “home.”
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HANG UP: Cell Phone Use Linked To Cancer
Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011
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Bad news for all chatterboxes. Cell phone use has been linked to brain cancer in a recent study on adult males, apparently due to the radiation they emit. Enough time has passed since the invention of cell phones to have some empirical data and the rate of brain tumors doubled in cell phone users over the last 10 years. The World Health Organization is now listing, ”mobile phone use as a ‘carcinogenic hazard’ as lead, engine exhaust and chloroform.” Super!? The really important news for MAMAs is that kids are even more impacted by cell phone radiation because their skulls are thinner and their brain cells are dividing at a faster rate than adults. Also, male fertility can be impacted by cellphone radiation, too!
MOMism: “A mind is a terrible thing to waste.” We all need a little peace and quiet sometimes and cell phones and those fab apps can entertain the KID-Os for hours. It’s kind of like a cyber sitter! (-: But…our kids are getting over-exposed. Literally. Too much screen time takes away from other fun games and outside playtime…remember when we were kids? Let’s remind the kiddies that cell phones aren’t toys…teach them “slug bug,” “I spy” or the license plate game.
Also, too much radiation exposure is not great. So MAMAs, heed warnings from manufacturers. Apple says to keep the phone 5/8 inch away from your body and Blackberry says .98 inches away. Note, too, that cell phones emit stronger radiation when the signal is weaker, like when you’re in a moving vehicle and the cell is trying to connect to towers as you drive by. Use that blue tooth device, MAMAs! Not only will it keep you from crashing, but it could save your brain. We need all the brain cells we have left?!?! When all else fails, turn on radio Disney – your brain cells may tune out for awhile, but youll drown out the fighting in the back seat and, subliminally, you’ll be learning all the words to every Justin Bieber and Taylor Swift song! (-:
Change Begins at Home!
-Michelle & Deb
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“It’s all fun and games, until someone gets hurt.”
Tuesday, June 14th, 2011Our kids learn a lot on the playground – they develop important physical and social skills that teach them boundaries and common courtesy that translate off the black top, too. So, why do we still have politicians tweeting their privates, throwing sand and having temper tantrums, while cartoon characters and comedians are testifying on Capitol Hill? It would be funny, if it weren’t so sad and distracting for our country.
These are serious times and we need serious adults working to solve our national problems. America’s moms need to remind our politicians that we are already wiping noses and teaching self-control to own kids, so enough with the snotty behavior and poor judgement from our elected leaders!? We expect more. Our kids deserve better.
We might be temporarily entertained by all the playground politics, but it’s time to end all the monkey business and time to get on with the business of the American people.
Have fun with the KID-Os this weekend – turn off the cell phones, computers and DSIs and take them to the playground instead!!!
Change Begins at Home!
-Michelle & Deb
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HEALING MAMA: Linsey Goldman
Tuesday, June 7th, 2011“My child has what?” is the first thing any parent would think after being told their child has epilepsy. But, after the shock and grief wear off, MAMAs like Linsey Goldman jump into action and become an advocate for their child, of course!
Linsey’s twins were very different from the get-go. Her daughter was brave and very active and her son more cautious and reserved. Then, after her son had a 2 minute “blackout” and was taken to the emergency room, the Goldman family got the news that little Benji had epilepsy. It’s difficult enough raising kids without the added challenge posed by raising a child with special needs. Linsey has had to figure out what medications, type of therapy and education were best for her son. It’s exhausting! She is thankful, though, for the support of her family and her child’s “team” of professionals that she has organized on his behalf.
Benji has given his family a special, unexpected gift, as special needs children often do. He has taught his family patience and has helped them realize what is really important in life.
Linsey, has become not only an expert but an activist for special needs KID-Os. She is a volunteer for C.U.R.E. (Citizens United for Research in Epilepsy) which was founded by Susan Axelrod whose husband, David, is President Obama’s senior advisor. Their child, Lauren, is an epileptic and Susan has done great MAMA work to raise money and awareness so that MAMAs like Linsey are empowered to do the same.
To that end, Linsey has organized a fundraiser in the Boston area. “It’s been a lot of work to put on the event, “ Linsey says. But the hope is that events like this one all over the country, organized by MAMAs just like Linsey, will raise awareness and money that can lead to a cure for epilepsy.
We wish Linsey great success in her efforts – she is our HOT MAMA this month for showing us how a mother’s love can cure! If you’d like to learn more about C.U.R.E. or how you can help, click the link and get in the know!
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Teach Your Children Well
Friday, June 3rd, 2011Another school year draws to a close and we find ourselves scrambling to pull together teacher gifts, finalize camp schedules, clear out homework drawers and stock up the pantry for another fun-filled summer!!!
The excitement of summer and the simultaneous fear that we will have our kids all day is setting in! Yep - teachers spend more time during the school year with our kids than we do?! And now, it’s on – all day, every day for three months?! So, let’s give our kids’ teachers a heart-felt “thank you” for all the time, patience and care they devote to our kids, but let’s also realize that MAMAs are our kids most important teachers. We teach them life lessons, values and the vital connection of shared experiences. They learn about love, compassion, honesty, manners and more from US.
Summertime is our time to laugh, play, smooch and explore with our kids – consider it “summer school!” Let’s enjoy every single minute of it. (-:









